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Tuesday, May 27, 2008

What have your words done?

Words are something that we use everyday and think very little of. Words can build up, can make people happy and encourage them. Words can show love and can inspire people to take their life to the next level. Words can also kill. Words can hurt and injure more than anything else. We can scar and mangle people with a simple slip of the tongue. When I was younger I was the weird one out. People liked to make fun of me so when I was in my early teens and finally found "acceptance" I took it...at a very high price. The people with whom I hung out with there not very godly and in all fairness neither were I. They'd tease people and I'd just stand their watching never daring to say a word to stop them, I may have not joined in but I did help them by never intervening. As I got older it became easier and easier to blend in with the crowd I was not as strange or as clumsy yet I still felt as if I had to change in order to be cool; I never even stopped to think what I was paying to fit in. Later on when I was fifteen or so, at a Christian camp my "friends" told me that I couldn't hang with them anymore because I didn't look Goth enough or bad enough and they wanted to get to know a group of "awesome" Goths from another church. The words stung like none other I was not enough for my friends and thus I was being cast aside.

Matthew 12:34 reads: "O generation of vipers, how can ye, being evil, speak good things? For out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh."
If our hearts are full of evil and hate then our words will be damaging not only to ourselves but to others. We so often speak with out thinking and the damage is done the instance our words fall from our lips. The Bible is full of verses dealing with words and the danger there of. Pull out your concordance and read some of the verses dealing with tongue.

Words are powerful. My mother saw this on a blog and showed it to me. I wanted to cry the words touched my soul and brought back memories. After I watched for the fourth time I went to my room sat down, picked up my knitting needles and started to pray and think things over. I can remember a time when I wanted to end my life. A time when I felt as if no one was on my side because of things people had said to me. I thought that no one would care or would even notice my death, what made me think this? Words. Then a sickening feeling hit me in the gut, how many people had I made feel this way? How many people had felt this same hopelessness because of words I said or words that I never said? Another sickening thought was how have I affected those younger than me who look up to me? My younger brothers or children at my church? The thought was almost too much to bear.
As you listen to this song and watch the video I pray that the Lord will speak to you and challenge your heart. There is not much for me to say on this matter the song says so much.

5 comment(s):

Maria said...

Wow. You make me realize again how important words are from examples of your own life.

Your blog is so pretty!

retrobellewife said...

Thank you for visiting my blog, first of all!
Your posts are written with such passion. I feel as though I am sitting with you in the middle of a conversation. I, too, remember the hurtful things I had to hear. Saddest of all was that most of it came from relatives, and if it wasn't about me it was about my parents or my sister and brother. I can't handle it when people hurt those I love, and there were my parents trying to protect us and showed no hurt towards what was being said to them and about them just so we wouldn't be hurt. I remember wanting so much to speak, to say something in defense of my family, and yet I felt I couldn't, trying to be respectful. Now, I look upon those days in disappointment because I had the chance to talk and yet I remained quiet. I am older now and would like to think I have a better idea of things now. If given the chance, I don't think I would sit so quietly by, unless I thought it was best. To honor my father and mother, I know I should stand up for them and because they have raised us to love one another, I would speak for my sister and brother as well. God has given me such a wonderful family, that not defend it when attacked, would be to take it for granted.
I love your post and the lyrics to that song were great.
-Paige

Anonymous said...

Since the words were on the screen, I muted the song - sorry, but I don't listen to that kind of music. The words were interesting, though. I think a modest maiden needs to be careful about what goes into her ears, too, so that it won't come out of her mouth. That music is for the Devil's crowd.

Anonymous said...

Wow that was a very deep and thoughtful post. Thank you for writing it. We have a lot problems around here with the way we talked to each other. Whether it's in jest or just being careless with the way we speak. I know I need to work on it, but it's so much easier to be mean, isn't it? It's so much easier to just blow someone off, but it's not right. Thank you for reminding.

Also I couldn't help when watching the video to think that if we didn't have public schools we wouldn't have so many hurting kids. Kids parents would be teaching them and in turn they wouldn't be used to be around mean kids all the time and I think our society would be a better place.

Thanks again! Great post!

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Blessings!
MJ

Mia said...

Great post!
Words are soo powerful...I'm definetely going to ponder deeper on this subject!
Thanks,
--Mia