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Friday, May 1, 2009

Great-grandmother update.

Today is our first full day in Ohio. My great-grandmother is doing much better. The bleeding in her brain has stopped and she has no broken bones as was first supposed. She looks pretty beat up but not near as bad as we all thought she would look.
She is coherent on and off, some times remembering who we are and other times thinking we are part of the hospital staff. Today has been better for her though. Most of what she said made sense and she seemed to understand that she can't go home just yet. Her husband still isn't all the way here. He knows she fell and is in the hospital but doesn't really "get" whats going on. Everything has been really hard on him. This morning was his birthday and he informed us it wasn't. We we told him that, yes it was, its May first, he said well if you say so and then later told us how hard it is to sleep at night with out your partner. He has been so sweet with her; holding her hand and gently stroking it with his thumb, just smiling at her very lovingly. He also knows that he won't be able to care for her once she is released from the hospital, which I'm sure is very sad for him. He has late stages of Alzheimer and dementia. So even if grandma was able to come back home he wouldn't be able to care for himself. There is so much that needs to planned and taken care of, I am grateful that the responsibility doesn't fall on me or my mother.



Thanks to all of y'all for your prayers.

2 comment(s):

Rachel said...

Hi Sydney! I am glad that your grandmother seem s to be doing better. That is so sad about your grandfather. I always feel so sorry for the elderly who are sick or can't think properly like that. We will continue to pray for you all and for your grandparents!=:)

Blessings!
~Rachel~

Felecia said...

Aw,I'm sorry! But I'm glad your grandma is doing better. Your poor grandfather! That is sad. God help him and give him grace! God draw him and your grandma close to Himself!